He’s an unrepentant cheat but I have a child for him; can I dump him?

Quarrelsome couple.

Woman writes to a Relationship consultant, Bukky on how her Beau is an unrepentant cheat but she has a child for him and is reluctant about leaving him.

Dear Bukky,

I’m a 24 year old woman in a relationship with a 27 year old man. 

We had our first child in 2011. He started cheating in 2013. When I found out, he said he would stop dating that girl and he blamed me for not respecting him, and said it’s the reason why he did it.

He never stopped until I left him because I couldn’t stand for it anymore. In 2016, we got back together as he promised he will never do anything like that anymore because he’s a grown up and now understands things that destroys relationships. I forgave him and he made things right.

From there I’ve found him cheating on me more than 5 times from 2016 to 2018 and now it’s worse because he even introduced the girl to me.

When I wanted to leave him, he said he’d leave the girl. I’m not too sure whether they are still together or not but I’m hurt.

I’m not sure whether I must get into this marriage with someone I don’t trust. He also blamed me this time that I don’t respect him. But he also said he can’t let me go.

When I want to leave him, he apologizes and says he’ll stop doing these things.


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