As a girl trapped in the circles of marriage life, you must educate yourself.
NewsDesk has brought to you, some things you should know and avoid.
1. Sex and sleeping around is not a marriage certificate.
Rather a sin because of what it produces.
Engaging in premarital sex is like opening a surprise bag before handing it over to you.
No matter how you sugar it, whether you call it “dating”, “engagement”, “engagement” or anything else, it is wrong and very wrong to live with the opposite sex before marriage; you pretend to be a toy to play with and then throw it away when a new catch comes along.
By the way, if you like old, overused stuff that came for nothing! Dear singles, don’t let anyone cheat you.
Some married lady might tell you to do the same and say that’s how she got hers.
One question: How many men were she so cheap with before an unfortunate was deceived?
2. Cooking, sweeping and washing.
You saw ‘Cooking’, right? You must think it’s an inappropriate priority, but I’ll prove you wrong.
The African man will always stress that this future woman is a good cook who can prepare his best meals tastily.
Come to think of it, many of them don’t cheat and choose another woman – probably one who hasn’t even cooked for him? Whoever told you to eat, keep cheaters away!
If you like, wash his dirty underwear as well as the garbage dump of his lineage line, mob all the stairs from his house to the Express, do the dishes, or even sweep his house to the next three streets, he will marry the person he is going to marry.
Excuse me for hitting your bubble. Many who did all this ended in the tears of the Titanic.
I advise you to be yourself: let him know the limits of being a wife and a friend.
Since you have numerous male friends trying to sort out the best option, men also keep many female friends ready until the “heavenly” match is decided.
Don’t come and let another woman’s husband play nanny for free!
3. avoid the “sex before marriage” crew
I have little to say. Just be aware that many perverts find the nearest gullible person to whom they can apply this age-old trick.
What are they testing? If they don’t think you’re the marriage type, why don’t they pick someone else?
The truth is, if you accidentally get pregnant, there’s still no guarantee of marriage. You have your permission to try; it will end in tears.
4. take care of your body.
Taking care of your body does not mean fixing hawk feathers as eyelashes, exposing décolletés or wearing mini-skirts, it means taking responsibility.
Use make-up sparingly, it does not have a positive effect, but a sexually negative one.
Secondly, if you have a bulge on your stomach that is protruding, try to treat it.
Over 98% of living men will take it for what it usually is: THAT YOU WERE NOT BORN FOREIGN! If this is the case, you can’t hide it, strangely enough, because almost all men are particularly gifted at discovering this.
Do you understand why you should not have premarital intercourse at all, let alone an abortion?
5. always tell the truth about what you say Instead of lying, it is better to tell someone that a particular request is confidential.
Remember that a lie needs more lies to keep the lie young. One thing is that you are free to lie about your age, your testimony or any other thing and get married (a trophy you consider a trophy), but believe me, the day your partner discovers that you have been deceiving him all along is the day you break love, trust and peace forever and start enjoying Buchi Emecheta’s joy of motherhood.
Conclusion: It is not about looking beautiful or less beautiful, which determines the speed, but about discovering who you should not be.
It is about not following the worldly course of fashion. Most of the time we are the reason our relationship sail after the rip.
Remember that not all engagement rings are a world of Alice in Wonderland, some are slips